Comments on: Can I force a medical history from deadbeat father? http://www.medicalsupplyservices.com/blog/can-i-force-a-medical-history-from-deadbeat-father/ Fri, 18 May 2012 04:44:05 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Alex http://www.medicalsupplyservices.com/blog/can-i-force-a-medical-history-from-deadbeat-father/comment-page-1/#comment-1622 Alex Mon, 20 Jul 2009 10:21:17 +0000 http://www.medicalsupplyservices.com/blog/can-i-force-a-medical-history-from-deadbeat-father/#comment-1622 Although this information is covenant it is not always necessary, Adoptive parents do not have all of the medical history for their children and they grow up just fine. If your Ex had something such as Diabetes then yes it would be very helpful to know this however something like that would be very hard for you not to already know. Your Ex is using this as a wedge by forcing you to fight for it. You should really ask your self , is it worth fighting with him, not only the cost but the emotional trauma as well for something that is not “Necessary” And his lack of giving you this information is no reflection on how good of a mother you are, but that fact that he caring more about wining a fight then caring for his daughter. This is a horrible story but it should prove my point. My cousin was date raped, and ended up with a baby. She couldn’t face the man to get his full medical history She just couldn’t do it. The Baby ended up with a heart disorder that eventually required an operation once this kid’o turned 5. The thing is that even if she had the info it wouldn’t have stopped Jason’s heart defect or even given anyone a heads up about it. He was just born that way. He is now a wonderful extremely HEALTHY well cared for little boy who just turned 9. And the so called Father has never contributed any information about his history. Our doctor says that is fine, it would have been helpful but its not necessary. Although this information is covenant it is not always necessary, Adoptive parents do not have all of the medical history for their children and they grow up just fine. If your Ex had something such as Diabetes then yes it would be very helpful to know this however something like that would be very hard for you not to already know.

Your Ex is using this as a wedge by forcing you to fight for it. You should really ask your self , is it worth fighting with him, not only the cost but the emotional trauma as well for something that is not “Necessary” And his lack of giving you this information is no reflection on how good of a mother you are, but that fact that he caring more about wining a fight then caring for his daughter.

This is a horrible story but it should prove my point. My cousin was date raped, and ended up with a baby. She couldn’t face the man to get his full medical history She just couldn’t do it. The Baby ended up with a heart disorder that eventually required an operation once this kid’o turned 5. The thing is that even if she had the info it wouldn’t have stopped Jason’s heart defect or even given anyone a heads up about it. He was just born that way. He is now a wonderful extremely HEALTHY well cared for little boy who just turned 9. And the so called Father has never contributed any information about his history. Our doctor says that is fine, it would have been helpful but its not necessary.

]]> By: ouragon http://www.medicalsupplyservices.com/blog/can-i-force-a-medical-history-from-deadbeat-father/comment-page-1/#comment-1621 ouragon Mon, 20 Jul 2009 02:14:28 +0000 http://www.medicalsupplyservices.com/blog/can-i-force-a-medical-history-from-deadbeat-father/#comment-1621 Millions of moms don't have this info and the children do just fine. I think you're trying to control him because you're mad. Why'd you have a child with a man when you don't know the slightest thing about him? Millions of moms don’t have this info and the children do just fine. I think you’re trying to control him because you’re mad.

Why’d you have a child with a man when you don’t know the slightest thing about him?

]]> By: oh_jo123 http://www.medicalsupplyservices.com/blog/can-i-force-a-medical-history-from-deadbeat-father/comment-page-1/#comment-1620 oh_jo123 Sat, 18 Jul 2009 10:06:29 +0000 http://www.medicalsupplyservices.com/blog/can-i-force-a-medical-history-from-deadbeat-father/#comment-1620 just as you said YES the courts can make him do it just as you said YES the courts can make him do it

]]> By: C J http://www.medicalsupplyservices.com/blog/can-i-force-a-medical-history-from-deadbeat-father/comment-page-1/#comment-1619 C J Fri, 17 Jul 2009 12:25:05 +0000 http://www.medicalsupplyservices.com/blog/can-i-force-a-medical-history-from-deadbeat-father/#comment-1619 In every U.S state you can have the courts force the father to supply his medical history. Talk to a lawyer in your state as the methods of doing this varies considerably. In every U.S state you can have the courts force the father to supply his medical history. Talk to a lawyer in your state as the methods of doing this varies considerably.

]]> By: Nicky http://www.medicalsupplyservices.com/blog/can-i-force-a-medical-history-from-deadbeat-father/comment-page-1/#comment-1618 Nicky Tue, 14 Jul 2009 19:54:33 +0000 http://www.medicalsupplyservices.com/blog/can-i-force-a-medical-history-from-deadbeat-father/#comment-1618 Call his mother. Call his mother.

]]> By: melyssa • http://www.medicalsupplyservices.com/blog/can-i-force-a-medical-history-from-deadbeat-father/comment-page-1/#comment-1617 melyssa • Tue, 14 Jul 2009 16:12:43 +0000 http://www.medicalsupplyservices.com/blog/can-i-force-a-medical-history-from-deadbeat-father/#comment-1617 im not sure. i am having the same problem. im not sure. i am having the same problem.

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